Technically, since I do not control any institutions I cannot be any of these things, but I sure can make a valiant attempt.

First – RACIST. February is Black History Month, and wouldn’t you know I am Black. Too often I hear Black men gripe about hey they are turned away from certain ladies, and I hear ladies say “I don’t see Black guys.” Well, such is not the case with me. As a matter of fact for the entire month of February all Black men, women and couples will receive 25% off all my rates.

Next – SEXIST. So we already know I am Black and guess what – I am a woman too. In the month of February all women receive 30% off my rates. My part to strength the sisterhood.

Finally – LOYALIST. The week of February 6th to 12th is my “Customer Appreciation Week.” Those who are new to me receive 15% off and those whom I have visited with in the last three (3) months before February 5th receive 30%. Pays to be loyal!

Terms & Conditions
– Only one special/discount listed here or on my site can be used at a time
– All of the above discounts apply ONLY to engagements booked thru my online booking form (http://vanicalove.com/booking.html) at least 24 hours in advance.
– Screening must be cleared at least 12 hours before engagement.
– Rain Checks for rates will not be given.

So there is a little something here for everyone – which is called inclusion, and I guess I sort of missed the whole point of being a bigot. Oh well, I can’t help but be a sexy and sassy sweetheart.

See you soon!

• I hate Madzas for somewhat irrational reasons
• Like many people I get depressed from time to time. Unlike others, I never show it outwardly.
• If you give me lemons, I will make lemon and honey tea.
• I love wearing a lot of make up, but rarely ever do.
• My wingspan is 5’10″
• I never understood math the way it was taught to me. I had to figure it out on my own.
• I can probably quote over 200 lines from Shakespeare’s poems/plays, but never do.
• I always shop with coupons if I can.

E-mail sent to me

Hi Vanica,

I saw your post on the {messageboard} board about your upcoming visit. I also saw on the general board that you like strip clubs. Do you think you’ll be going to any during your visit to {city}?

The reason I ask is, I’ve checked out your site and read your reviews, and I’m interested in possibly booking some time with you. However, I’d like to meet up with you in a more neutral setting first, to a) see if we click, and b) run a special request by you to see if you’re down.

Is that kind of pre-meeting something you’d consider? If it turns out we’re a good match, we could consider our time at the club part of our appointment, and then adjourn elsewhere. If we’re not a good match, we can part ways and you can enjoy the club, no hard feelings .

I know this is kind of unorthodox, and I totally understand if you’re not up for it. Just thought I’d ask. If seeing some of my reviews/references would help with your decision, let me know and I’d be happy to provide them.

My response

Sorry darling, I do no arrange such meetings. As for clicking – no offense – but you didn’t find me on Match.com. I am a Luxury Escort and Companion. I spend a lot of time learning about various topics, current events, psychology and the sensual arts to ensure I “click” with those I meet. Now some individuals, and I have extraordinary connections as if were are two parts of a whole.

If you are looking to see if we have chemistry I invite you to really explore my website (http://vanicalove.com), and my blog (http://vanicalove.wordpress.com). I have there so much information about personality it would be hard to say you would leave without insight on me.

As for a special request, I am happy to discuss such matters after your screening is complete.

Kisses,
Vanica

Not sure how to e-mail me? Well, I am starting a category of post called “E-mail Mistakes.” It will include e-mails (abridged) from different individuals which where either ignored completely by me or which asked inappropriate questions and my responses.

So if you are thinking of contacting me, e-mail is best yet do not let a simply mistake lead to misunderstanding or a non-response from me.

“Go head girl – Shake your moneymaker!” Usually a statement meant to inspire a girl to shake her ass and/or hips. Well, not the case with me. If asked about my “moneymaker” I would instantly think of my face. I even had another provider tell me it’s a shame I blur my face in my photos because I am easy on the eyes.

I will say this, I work very hard on my face. That is to say to keep my skin clear and even. I want it to look as good as possible without make up. As for the bone structure and features, well that’s DNA. I can’t take credit for that. I just learned how accent what I have to the best of my abilities. Plus, I love to play dress up. What girl doesn’t.

But sorry, I will continue to blur/block my face. To see you will just have to meet me face to face. We can shake our money makers together.

Don’t ever, ever, ever, EVER use my real name when calling me or in bed. As a matter of fact, do not use it at all without expressed and written consent from the NFL.

At the end of every year millions if not billions of people make a plan to make the upcoming year better than the last. Whether it be a new diet or hair cut, or even perhaps redoing the kitchen we often feel change can make our lives better. A paradox in fact since most people act as if they are afraid of change. This might be the reason most resolutions go unfinished or unfulfilled.

Even with that cynical first paragraph I am looking forward to taking on the challenge of completing my resolution for 2012. Against my usual pattern I have decided to set specific goal/resolution for next year – usually I don’t wait but attack problems/goals the minute I think of them.
Unlike most however, my resolution is business related rather than personal. One which might affect you, my reader, directly. I intend to listen more to my clients. Ask more questions, fulfill more needs/desires, be more attentive to subtle signs, and make each experience different, exciting and better than the last.

A lofty task yes, but so was creating calculus. Anyway, to complete this task I am going to require the help and feedback of my clients. You will see more surveys and marketing tests from me in the near future. The first of such endeavors will include my unique “Dinner & Discussion” – a visit including dinner and more specifically to get the the root of what YOU want. In a relaxed atmosphere you will have the opportunity to air all grievances, makes suggestions and special requests. A safe and judge-free zone I plan to create in order to open a line of dialogue often never broached between escort and client. It will be new territory, but if you are brave enough I promise you will find the experience valuable and rewarding.

In life, I don’t believe in fate. Most things are chance mixed in with the results of our choices. Every now and then I wish things could have gone differently or I made a different choice, but I know in the end results would be the same if not close to the same. Then again, it is when small choices make such a huge impact on our lives when we (humanity) start to think greater forces were in play.

Often I look at life trying to be logically, and making sense of the world around me. When it comes to others and the choices they make, their actions I am often baffled when people do things against their best interest. Or when people are hypocrites and live false lives. But I know from experience sometimes an individual being honest with her/him self can be hard. It requires one to take into account his/her flaws and limitations. It requires one to accept his/her mistakes, seek penance where appropriate. One must recognize emotions and feelings are not whimsical, but true influences and motivators. It forces one to accept the way things are, and not just how we envision they should be. Unromantic, raw and harsh is this honest world, but it is also filled with opportunities one might not have realized before.

I never want to miss an opportunity. Yet the challenge – for me in particular – is being open to, seeing and grasping opportunities without sacrificing my self interest. I often find myself trying to be vulnerable and safe at same time. Oxymoron of my life. Over time this has become harder to do as it has only worked out about 20% of the time. As of late, less and less. So from there it gets very personal and more about me doubting myself, my actions, philosophy, vision, expectations and goals. Yet, to add to the oxymoron, each loss and survival makes taking risks easier as well knowing no matter what I can survive, thrive and grow.

So there exposed is my flaw – when it comes to love on some level I don’t trust myself – my instincts and my heart. This at times seems as if I don’t trust, care for or love others. It seems I have no passion, and am cold and self serving. But that is the furthest thing from the truth.

That is the furthest thing from the truth.

I know here within me there is a love, loyalty, heat and passion for which there is no rival.

I have been working hard to add some dates and new location to my 2012 calendar. Here are some upcoming tour dates/locations.

January

• 11 – 14: Los Angeles, CA
• 19 – 22: Houston, TX
• 22 – 24: Albuquerque, NM
• 25 – 28: Reston, VA

February

• 3 – 4: Greenbelt, MD
• 15 – 18: Orlando, FL
• 23 – 25: Pittsburgh, PA

March

• Louisville, KY
• Ohio
• Memphis, TN

April

• New Orleans, LA
• Salt Lake City, UT

May

• 20 – 26: Chicago, IL
• Milwaukee, WI
• Indiana

 

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